Nickname

Didi (Di², Didz, Deej, Dy…)

Real name

Jody Donnelly

Birth date

Tuesday, September 8, 1981

Star sign and Chinese horoscope

Virgo and rooster

Nationality

Belgian (Scottish halfblood)

Address

Planet district, Mariakerke (Gent), Belgium

Occupation or Resume

Freelance writer, columnist, counselor

Aims, Dreams or Goals in Life

I want to have a memoir, be an author, be a travel writer, have a baby and go on a trip around the world.

Philosophy or Views

I won’t ever adjust my way of living to other people, to my own discomforts, needs or pain, or I won’t exercise until I drop, life’s to adjust itsef to myself, not the other way around. I am free to kill myself when my life doesn’t turn out the way I want it to.

Physical description

Friedreich’s Ataxia: progressive hereditary coordination and balance dysfunction in the cerebellum, dysarthria, nystagmus, scoliosis (surgery), chronic fatigue, migraine, tinnitus, cardiomyopathy

Psychological description

Highly Sensiive Person (HSP), Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and  Paranoid Personality Disorder.

Sexual description

Bisexual, but preference is straigt, lack of trust, familiar with one night stands and having fuck buddies, sperm is antidepressive, but need lots of it as I own a high libido

Appearance

Belly button piercing (banana), small tattoo on right shoulder (cat paw print), 6 earrings, 45 kg, 1m60, red dyed long hair, blue eyes, flashy wheelchair

Likes or Do’s

Writing and reading

Experimenting, expressing, analyzing, thinking, observing, communication

Philosophy, ethics, logics, psychology, sexology, suicidology, educational sciences

Living in my imaginary world, daydreaming, hallucinating

Aroma therapy, herbal therapy, recipes and cocktails

Cats, stones and gems, mirrors, quotes fitness, powerplate

Dislikes or Don’ts

Writing postcards

People stalking me or wanting to control my mind, giving me tips or telling me what to do with my life

People finishing off my sentences for me, gazing at me, talking about me in the third person, plainly considering me dumb
Migraine, feeling nauseous and vomiting

Getting my head stuck in a polo neck

Chit chatting about nothing or about tennis

Waiting, behaving, should’s, expectations and last minute cancellations

Personality description

Stubborn, lost romantic, impulsive, good listener, shy, dreamer, down-to-earth, depressive, melancholic, irritated, ignorant, manic, slaphappy, tearful, suicidal, asocial, antisocial, bipolar, borderline, wicked, extreme, radical, fanatic, ironic, cynic, sarcastic, quiet, talkative, analytical, crazy, different, apathetic, sympathetic, sweet, verbal aggressive, bitchy, spiritual, alternative, great thinker, emotional, sentimental, helping, caring, neat, unashamedly honest, sensitive, open-minded, controversial, paranoid, dramatic, eccentric, escribitionist, perfectionist, control-freak, impatient, liberal minded, humanist, contradictory, philosophical, creative, obsessive, cute, good, innocent, naughty, opinionated, compassionate, drama queen

Favorite magazines

Writer’s Digest, Bladerklad, Ataxie van Friedreich, Struikgewas, Urgent, Blogit, Alles over Gent, Jackies, Club Schrijven magazine

Reading style

Autobiographies, memoirs, novels, prose, fiction, self-help, references, philosophy, psychology, sexology, suicidology

Writing style

Autobiographical, memoirs, columns, articles, self-help, prose, features, essays, true stories, fairy tales

Favorite authors

James Redfield, Paul Gallico, Jostein Gaarder, Elizabeth Wurtzel, Rebecca Ray, Sussanna Kaysen, Edgar Allan Poe, Shakespeare, Sylvia Plath, Anne Sexton, Lauren Slater, Kay Jamison Redfield

Music Style

Enya, Hooverphonic, Elton John, Laura Pausini, Bon Jovi, Bryan Adams, Jason Downs, Clouseau, Adiemus, Celtic, oldies, Dire straits, simple minds, Billy Joel, U2, eighties, Alanis Morisette, Roxette, Robbie Williams, Nathalie Imbruglia, Admiral Freebees, Daniel Powter

Favorite TV Shows

Neighbours, Sex and the City, Desperate housewives, CNN, News, De Laatste Show, Koppen, Vijf laat, Oprah

Movie style

Psychological thrillers, melodramas, true stories

Favorite actors

Jodie Foster, Christina Ricci, Sarah Jessica Parker, Meg Ryan, Julia Roberts, Richard Gere, Depardieu

Favorite perfume

Amarrige, Angel, essential oils (Lavender, Ylang Ylang)

Favorite drinks

Amaretto, Passoa, Pisang Ambon, Malibu, Batida de Coco, Piña Colada, Ricard, gin, wodka, flügel, herbal teas (Lavender, mint…), coca-cola light, fruit juices, fruit shakes, milk shakes, cappuccino

Favorite food

Spanish tapas, Italian, Mexican, Southern, Eastern, salads, spicy, pasta,, rice, fruit, vegetables, spicy, cakes, cookies, chocolate, ice-creams